MAKING LOVE BY NOT MAKING LOVE

 My mom and dad decided that I should get married… ARRANGED!

 

Not because they were trying to force me but, that I had on and off relationships now and then and I wasn’t settling all by myself so they stepped in, talked to one of their friends… who arranged a meeting for their daughter and I.

 

At first glance, we didn’t struck to each other but were okay if our parents were close friends and were thinking good for us.. look at us! I mean she’s 28 and I’m 30… I have a gopd job and no wife… so we both thought about giving it a shot after we talked.

 

After our marriage…

 

We were headed towards our room… we both were blushing and it was hard for us to look in the eye straight. The bed was made beautifully and we both sat on our own ends opposite to each other. We tried to look into one another’s eyes…

 

Before we talked I told her that “Its not easy for me too to make love to someone I just got to know, I un what you are going through, this is your home and you don’t need to rush into anything… I respect your feelings and lets get to know each other first. Okay?”

 

Her blush turned into a smile… she said “I don’t mind making love… I really like you… I trust you and you are very sweet and kind.”

 

Now I blushed and said “You are also sweet and very beautiful… its all right… we can get to know each other now and fo the rest in Thailand on our Honeymoon. Okay?”

 

She didn’t say a word for about 3 minutes and it was getting weird. I told her that I was going to the washroom and she can rest after a tiresome wedding.

 

When I came back, I saw her lying on the bed and looking at me with a smile, an unusual smile like she’s really into me, and wants me…

 

I say nothing and lie on my side on the bed and pass a warm smile of comfort. While she started removing her ear ring, her jewellery and outer garments… I tried to stop her and calm her down.. but the calming down slowly and slowly made us come closer and closer to each other… we kissed intensely… on and on… and somehow it led me to kiss her neck and slowly going down her neck.

 

But I had to stop myself… I told her “Listen, I appreciate all this.. but the truth is that I want to know you first, Love you first or else this all would be meaningless, loveless!”

 

She asked me “If I stop, and we do not make love tonight… how would you come to love me? Would you even love me ever?”

 

I said “Yes, I will love you, I want to love you with all of my heart that’s why we need to stop. If I make love now, it wont be fully from my heart… but if we get to know, trust and accept each other, then only I will be able to love you from deep beneath my heart and far beyond the horizon.. please understand.”

 

She then asks me that what do I suggest to do. I suggested her that lets talk, lie side to side, stare into each other’s eyes.. ask questions about each other… till we eventually fall in love!

 

Hours and hours kept passing on the clock.. all we did was to look at each other, smile at each other, ask each other about our likes, dislikes, ambitions, favourites, hobbies, from favourite fashion clothes  to favourite flavours of ice cream… everything!

 

We laughed, we giggled, we shared our deepest thoughts on love.. and by the time it was morning and the first ray of the sun fell upon her face… we were in love!

 

She says to me “Im glad we made love by not making love, and for that, and everything, I love you!”